Being woman is her power!

                                Being woman is her power!

It is over when you lie. It is over when you break the trust. It is over when you do not show respect. It is over when you humiliate your partner in front of others. It is over when you become abusive. It is over when you do not realize your mistakes. Is it still not over? Just over it out.

Is living a life with an imprudent, worth? If you do not respect your partner there is no point in taking the relationship forward. I feel no woman should tolerate a man who is abusive mentally or physically. I also feel it won’t be fair if you do not give a second chance to save the relationship.  But, what if the second chance goes all in vain? Then, it is the time you move on.

In a society we live it is often seen that people do not speak up or take necessary actions when it is required the most. They blame the constitution of marriage, they compromise and chose to stay for their child if they have any. They say a child’s life would get ruined if he lives with a single parent? I want to know, how? For what you chose to stay even after you realize that the relationship is not going to work anyway?  Is it for your child? But, what about the child who is going to see his parents fighting and abusing each other every day? Would that not affect his childhood, his innocence? When your relationship with your partner gets miserable it surely affects your child’s life too.

In the long run there has to be someone who cares for you. Who loves you but, it isn't necessary that the person should be your partner. It is not a choice when a woman loses her husband, but she lives accepting her fate? Most of the women chose to live alone and bring up their child whereas some also prefer to remarry but then that is a choice. How does a woman whose husband is no more lives and brings up the child? If a husband is not worth it is better to live a life like widow instead.

A girl leaves her home, her parents, her friends, and her place where she had the most beautiful memories since her childhood. Nothing should be changed after marriage. Marriage is beautiful when things are easy for each-other, when there is no superior or inferior and when there is a mutual understanding.

The right man would not come up to you consistently with excuses. For the whole lot of things a wrong man would have ample of excuses. Something would always foil him from doing it if that involves any effort on his part.

The shoddier part is, the wrong man will make plans and never conclude it.  I believe plans without conclusions are worse than excuses because you know he has no intention of doing it. But when he makes plans and doesn’t come to a conclusion you go from exhilaration and anticipation to dissatisfaction and frustration.

If you trust, have conviction in his word then nothing like it. He will do his best to always keep his word to you.  He would do everything in his power to follow his words with action if you trust and believe him when he says he I’ll do it.

 If you don’t feel free to voice your views, your thoughts and your desires then you are caged my friend. All you got to do is fly away just, get the hell out of there. ESCAPE!!! There should be never a second thought on that.

It is much better to cut him out of your life once and forever. You’ve got to think about the future of your child and that can never be a good one if yours is bad. Living is not just about eating and napping. Life is a treasure that you always got to cherish. If one is unable to do it because of a moron then he should be shown the exit door.

It is never too late. It is actually better to be late than never. If you chose to stay and complain that you were fooled, cheated or betrayed you will always complain but never take any action. When you say you realized, have you ever lived the realization? Living the realization only happens when you never think of what happened in the past. It is when you have left your past behind and started a new life together where you don’t judge each other. It is when there is only love remained even after small fights. 

When you cannot get out of the miserable days of your relationship then the realization you had was a blunder. It is pointless asking someone to change his character, his personality. When a man thinks that he is greater to a woman in all aspects and he should be respected always over a woman just because he is a man then my friend all you got to do is chin-up and move on. You are no less than a man. In fact why is there a comparison at all? We have so many examples where women did not leave a chance to make us feel proud and surprise us then why is there still a second thought on your credibility?

You are the one who can make the best out of your life. Only you can if, you believe so. 

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